Why You Should Not Chase Men And What To Do Instead

One of the biggest mistakes I made in love was to chase men.

Whether I was just dating or in a relationship. Every time I chased a man, it never ended well for me.

In the moment I felt like I had no other options but to chase.

He either wanted out or he wasn’t actively pursuing me, so I felt I had to step up and take the role of the chaser.

I did it from a place of pain and insecurity, fearing that he will slip away from me.

but I am here to tell you that not only you should avoid chasing men but that you have a FAR BETTER option to make him crazy about you.

1. If you have to do some chasing, it means he does not like you enough

If a man really likes you or loves you ( if you are in a relationship already), you won’t ever need to chase him even when he pulls away, he will come back to you.

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2. He will subconsciously perceive you as not high value

Chasing a man will bring down your “perceived” value in his eyes because it signals to him that you are not a high value confident woman pursued by many men.

Instead of chasing him, learn how to stay high value, when he pulls away, it will dramatically change his perception of you.

3. You are no longer a challenge

Men love challenges when it comes to women, so chasing him just makes you not a challenge anymore.

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4. You will look needy

When a man chases, it comes from a place of power and manhood. That’s is what they are built to do biologically.

When a woman chases, it comes from a place of neediness, which can only result in pushing a quality man away or attracting the ones who see her as an opportunity to take advantage of.

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5. It will mess up with your self-esteem

Chasing a man always had a negative impact on my self-esteem.

I cannot recall a time when chasing resulted in more attraction and chemistry and made a man want me more.

I eventually started seeing myself as less valuable because he did not “validate me”.

With time, I realized that chasing a man is not worth the impact it has on self-esteem.

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So what you should do instead?

I know that it is easier for me behind the screen to say that you should not chase a man, but how do you keep his interest without chasing him, when he is not actively pursuing you?

Well, there is something you can do that will put you in a position where not only you will never have to chase a man again but will make a man drawn to you when you understand one little secret about men’s psychology.

When you are ready to step up your dating and relationship game and become a high value woman that men adore, check out this video.

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