Have you ever seen two people so fond on each other that you wished you had the same relationship?
Well, it happened to me many time during my single years and it often made me feel very sad. For years, I believed I must be cursed that I was not able to have one relationship right.
I met guys who seemed interested in me and even had a crush on me ( I am not too bad looking and could be great fun) but for some reason, they eventually grow bored, distant and never really reached the point of being in love with me and called it quits.
Then I saw them getting with another girl who seemingly had nothing more special than me but somehow ended up getting everything I wish I had…love, devotion and commitment from that guy.
These painful experiences brought me to become obsessed with the following question: What makes a man fall madly in love with a woman? How do they fall in love and what exactly triggers these deep feelings?
How is it that a man can like you but never really commit to you and eventually pull away and leave you for another girl who has nothing more special than you?
It took me years of observation and painful breakups to finally figure it out.
The answer to this question has nothing to do with your physical attributes or how smart or how amazing you are. It is to do with how the guy feels around you.
And if you thought that feelings are a matter of luck and totally outside of your control…that is because you haven’t yet come across His secret obsession yet.
I realized that there are specific behaviors and attitudes that if a woman masters, she can make almost any guy do and give anything in this world for her.
Women who are very successful in their love lives are those who either discovered these triggers ( sometimes accidentally or through a series of trial and errors) or they learned them through programs like His secret obsession.
For my part, I learned these truths the hard way, after self-assessing a decade of failed relationships. I wish I came across his secret obsession before because that would have saved me the best years of my life ( my 20’s) and probably would have saved my marriage.
Anyway, the fact that I learned everything by myself is the reason why I am able to give you a very honest opinion of his secret obsession.
If you think men and relationships are complicated? His secret obsession will demystify it for you.
Nothing in men is complicated, although when I was told this the first time I was skeptical.
Men want very simple things, the only issue is that they are incapable of articulating what they want and when they don’t get what they want, they will confuse the heck out of you.
To be fair, it is not only because of their incapability to say these things, but it is also because saying what they really want defies its very purpose.
Can you imagine a man feeling really admired if he asks you to “admire him”? You see it does not work that way, your admiration has to come from you without him telling you for it to be real in his eyes.
The thing is you don’t need your man to tell you what he wants from you and what he needs you to be because James Bauer teaches everything you need to know to be the woman of his dreams.
This is a life changing program for every woman struggling in her love life or wants to take her relationship to the next level.
Who is James Bauer
James Bauer is a relationship and dating coach and is the author of His secret obsession. He is behind the unique concept of the “hero instinct” and has taught many women around the world how to tap into their intuition and use hard-wired drives in men to create beautiful and lasting relationships with them.
About the book
His Secret Obsession is the most impressive and comprehensive relationship guide I have come across.
The program is divided into 2 parts and has a total of 17 chapters.
The first part is devoted to explaining how the hero instinct works and give incredible insight into the male psychology.
As I was reading through that section I could not stop from thinking how spot on everything was.
The second part is devoted to the techniques that you can use in order to exploit this instinct and gain the affection, trust, devotion and commitment of any man.
These powerful techniques will help you tap into men subconscious mind to make them become literally obsessed with you.
I have touched on this topic of the subconscious desires of men in previous posts where I explained that men are looking for relationships that fulfill certain fantasies, and a very important one is the hero fantasy.
Men naturally gravitate around people who trigger their hero instinct, and that is how you can make your man fall deeply in love with you and never want to leave you. He won’t even know why he feels that way for you because it is all subconscious.
In fact, what repelled a man from a relationship with a woman is the lack of his hero instinct being triggered. Again he won’t know why he is repelled but will feel the need to express his hero instinct somewhere else ( if you were still wondering why men cheat on women they love or why some men leave perfectly good relationships).
PS: This is not a manipulative guide, although it may sound like. It is all about understanding men better and knowing what they actually want from the relationship but are not able to articulate.
Very often the failure of a very promising relationship is due to lack of understanding of one another (I could have saved some relationships if I knew this before), and the very nature of a man’s need to be a hero won’t allow him to tell you that this is what he craves most.
Table of content
Part I: How The Hero Instinct Works
- The Secret Longing of Every Man
- The Unspoken Desire He’ll Never Admit
- Make Him See The Light
- The Fascination Trigger
- Why Men Say, “I’m just not ready”
- How Your Desires Can Fascinate Him
- The Secret Currency of Happy Relationship
- Rocket Fuel: How to Build Relationship Momentum Fast
- How To become His Secret Obsession
- Get Deeper Intimacy by Revealing More
- Three Things That Can Go Wrong (and how to fix them)
Part II: How to Use the Signals
- “The Private Island” Signal
- The “X-ray Question”
- The Glimpse Phrase
- The Secret “Currency” Of Happy Relationships
- The “I Owe You” Signal
- The “Damsel in Distress” Signal
Who is the book intended for
His secret obsession is intended for all women really, but in particular:
- If you are in a relationship and feel that he is losing interest in you, or that he is not as committed as you want him to be
- You are not moving forward with your relationship (he likes being with you but is unsure about your future)
- You failed in your previous relationships and you have no clue as to why you failed
- You want your ex back
- You are dating a man but you are not able to get him to commit to a relationship with you
- You want to get a man interested in you
His secret obsession is a very impressive relationship guide with incredible insight into the men’s mind and practical techniques with supporting illustration audio and videos content that will give you all you need to become your man’s focus and passion in life.
It has helped many women before you get the love and the relationship they want.
The great thing about the His Secret Obsession program is that it comes with a complete 60 day money back guarantee. You should really give not hesitate to give it a try and see if it makes sense to you and work for you. If not, you can just ask for your money back so you really should not be worried to give it a try.
It is time for you to understand men once and for all.
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