If you landed on this page, you probably are the type of woman who considers money as part of the dating equation.

There is nothing wrong with expecting to be spoiled by a man if you are going to invest in him emotionally and physically and you should not be called a gold digger for that.

Why would men expect you to give them your time, your emotions, and your soul for free when these are the most valuable things a human being has…more valuable than any material things?

Besides, It is only fair that each one of you invests the most abundant resource you have, but when it is the woman who spends her money she is “supporting” her man, and when it is a man spending on a woman, she is called a gold digger….talk about double standards.

It is your right to expect a man to pay for your dinner, your movie ticket, your club entry fee, or anything he has to pay for in exchange for your time. —Steve Harvey

Here is the thing, It is not about money.

It is all about investment, and the truth is men will be willing to invest their money and resources when the right woman comes along.

Those same men will call you gold digger women that they know are not the ONE.

I learn that lesson the hard way when my husband, whom I helped build up, left me broke and physically and emotionally squashed, to go and put his newly acquired wealth and resources at another woman’s disposal, the woman that he really wants to be with, a woman from whom he does not expect any financial contribution.

Please note that I am not encouraging anyone to deceive or manipulate or to make men spend money they were not ready to spend anyway, money which was going toward essential expenses such as children’s education for example,

This is why my very first point is going to be to choose the right person, someone who can afford and will happily and in total consciousness spend money and spoil the right woman for him.

 The Rich Will Marry Someone, Why Not You? TM – Ginie Sayles

Now that we got this out of the way, let’s talk about how you can make a man spend money on you.

Here are the 6 things to do to inspire a man of means to treat you like a queen.

1. You need to first make sure you are with the right guy

2. Be the total package

You need to invest in yourself, you need to treat yourself well, people will only treat you as well as you treat yourself.

Show them the way, communicate your standards. About the same way you invest in yourself.

Pampering yourself.

The lifestyle they assume you are living.

3. Communicate your standards

4. Don’t be easy to get

5. Let him lead and be the gentleman

make it the other person’s while, have a good time, make it fun, make your company enjoyable, memorable

6. Be generous

7. Be appreciative

8. Ask him for help

9. Drop him a hint


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