30 questions you should ask before getting married

Getting married is probably one of the biggest decisions you will ever make in your life, but given that divorce rates has arisen to unprecedented levels, you would wonder if people really give it enough thoughts before tying the knots.

Having a happy dating or even engagement period does not always indicate a future happy marriage.

It is also not enough to just be in love and it is far more important to ensure you can stay in love for a long time for your marriage to work. ( to set your marriage for success).

For that, It is very important for a couple considering making the big jump to check in with their partners on a number of important areas of their lives.

Knowing where each other stands on these important topics will set the right expectations for your married life and might uncover some incompatibilities that could potentially put your marriage at risk of a breakdown if discovered too late.

Don’t Miss : How To Get A Man Literally Addicted To You?

You would want to know sooner than later.

Here are 30+ questions every couple should ask before considering walking down the aisle.

Family and Children

  1. Would you like to have a family and children?

2. How would you raise your children? What set of values would you pass on to your children?

3. Would you put the family’s best interest above your own?


4. Are we making each other a better person?

5. Do we feel good in each other’s company?

6. Do we have fun together? Do we like our jokes? Do we like to do things together, watching movies, cooking?

7. Do we accept each other just the way we are?

Don’t Miss: How To Make Him Sexually Crazy About You?

8. Do we have the same or similar set of core values?

9. Why are we in this relationship? Is it because we appreciate, love, and trust one another or is it just to fill a void in our lives, or because we are afraid of being alone, Are we in for financial reasons?

10. Do we have the same important goals in life? Are we heading the same direction?

11. Do we know enough about each other?

12. Are there things that irritate us about each other?

13. Can we live with each other’s bad habits?

Don’t Miss: How To Activate His Hero Instinct?


14. Are we attracted to each other? Do we love to be intimate with one another?

15. Do we know each other love language and are they compatible?

16. Do we have matching sex drives?

17. If the answer to the previous question is No, can we manage mismatching sex drives?

Don’t Miss: The Best Texting Techniques To Use In The Early Days Of Dating

18. How important is sex in our relationship?

19. Do we consider pornography cheating or not?

20. If sex was out of the equation, would we still like each other?

Don’t Miss: How To Connect With A Man Emotionally?


21. Do we agree on how we want to spend our money?

22. Are we okay with each other’s spending habits?

23. Do we have common personal finance goals?


24. Is it important for us to share the same religious belief with our partner?

25. Can we live with our different religious beliefs?

Don’t Miss: The #1 Thing A Man Desires In A Relationship

Practical life

26. Can we divide household chores in a way that satisfies both of us? Who cooks, who cleans, who takes out trash?

27. Do we want to go to the same holiday destinations?

28. Do we have similar lifestyle or are we ready to adjust to one another’s lifestyle?

29. Do we want one of us to be a stay at home to take care of children, if any, while the other becomes the breadwinner?

Don’t Miss : The #1 Reason Why Men Pull Away


30. Are we comfortable communicating with each other our disagreements?

31. Can we discuss them in an adult manner?

32. How do we handle flights?

Don’t Miss : 12 Phrases That Drive Men Wild In Bed

Relatives management

33. How do we handle family influence on our relationship?

34. Do we have a set of boundaries in place to protect the relationship from conflicts with our respective families?


What if I tell you there is a way to spark a man’s motivation so he would want to do the work for you and pursue you? Wouldn’t that feel amazing?

It’s possible. It’s even easy once you learn just one simple principle about the way the male brain is wired to respond in relationships.

Check out this video to learn how to do that. It could change everything about how he responds to you. Check Here Now to see for yourself.

What Men Secretly Want


Make Any Man Fall In love With You == His Secret Obsession

How To Drive A Man Crazy In Bed ==> Language Of Desire

Thanks for reading my post. Please share it if you liked it.

Don’t Miss:

How To Inspire A Man To Commit To You?

The Secret To Make Any Man Fall Madly In Love With You

How To Text A Guy To Keep Him Interested In You?

How To Make Him Sexually Crazy About You?

How To Revive The Flame In A Relationship?

Why Men Fall In Love?

Thanks for reading my post. Please share it if you liked it. Please send it to someone who needs to read this.

You may also like:

How to never chase a man and what to do instead

How To Stay High Value When A Man Pulls Away

The best revenge on a guy who left you