It is often possible to spot potential trouble ( and make the decision to avoid it) early on in the dating process if we pay careful attention to behaviors, actions, and words of men and not let our emotions cause us to have a foggy vision.

I put together a list of 49 red flags to watch out for when you are dating a new man.

  1. If he is too good to be true, he probably is not true
  2. Unable to cut ties to a previous wife/girlfriend
  3. If the bartender knows what he wants before he orders
  4. You feel you are not a priority
  5. Sexualize all conversations
  6. Chronic Bad financial situation, compulsive spending, financial irresponsibility. He always needs help to pay his bills
  7. Can’t hold a job, Poor work ethic (changes jobs often and it is NEVER his fault)
  8. Dysfunctional family. The crazy apple doesn’t fall far from the crazy tree
  9. Too close of a relationship with parents, especially with a mother
  10. He lives with parents or family members (not always a bad sign but if he is old enough to have his life together he should probably have his own place).
  11. His words and actions don’t line up, inconsistency
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  1. Multiple children by multiple women
  2. too many female friends on Facebook or following too many girls on Instagram
  3. Talking shit about an ex, If all the exes are “crazy”
  4. Secretive about parts of his life, too mysterious…I no longer find this sexy, and you’d be better off adopting the same attitude
  5. Tons of failed relationships
  6. Does not treat people of a lower social status right
  7. Doesn’t ask questions about you, mostly talks about himself
  8. Confrontational when disagreed with
  9. Disregard for your needs
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  11. Dismiss your feelings, opinions, concerns
  12. Excessive smoking, drinking, and use of drugs
  13. Have a tight hold of their phone
  14. He has anger issues. Physical or emotional violence, name-calling
  15. Blame shifts
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  17. Manipulative, gaslighting, silent treatment, Breadcrumbing, Passive-aggressive
  18. Controlling, he wants to dictate his will onto you
  19. Lack of open communication skills
  20. Unable to accept blame, criticism
  21. Poor relationship with his kids (for example choosing not to do visitation)
  22. Eager to pointing your flaws right away
  23. Serial cheater
  24. Lack of empathy or consideration for others
  25. A sense of entitlement
  26. Rude, bad manners, Speaks over you, interrupts, overly into you at first usually fizzles out fast
  27. Emotionally unavailable
  28. Thinks that YOU’RE the lucky one for being chosen by him
  29. Arrogant, selfish, narcissist, Thinks he’s the smartest guy in the room
  30. Low tolerance to frustration, cannot handle the word no
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  32. He quits doing the sweet things he did for you in the beginning
  33. It’s always other people’s fault, never theirs
  34. Excessive jealousy
  35. If you catch him lying
  36. He does not keep his word
  37. If you feel you like him more than he likes you, it probably is true and you don’t want to be in an unbalanced relationship
  38. Doesn’t respect your boundaries (for example wanting sex too soon )
  39. He finds excuses for bad behavior
  40. He denies when he gets caught
  41. You feel they are playing a game, there is a difference between seduction and playing games


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