Men are compelled to chase feminine women, not because they make an intellectual decision that they want to pursue a feminine woman, but because biologically they are attracted to feminine energy because it reinforced their own masculine energy.
If you want a man to chase you, you have to understand these 2 things first.
1. A woman chasing a man is a turn off for men.
When a man chases, it comes from a place of power and manhood. That’s is what men are built to do biologically.
Men enjoy the chase, the adrenaline rush, the uncertainty around how you feel about them, the feeling that they had to work hard for you and earn your love.
When a woman chases, it comes from a place of neediness, driven by worry and anxiety, which inevitably lowers her confidence and her feminine energy.
and guess what? It only result in pushing a quality man away or attracting ones who see her as an opportunity to take advantage of.
I think if you ever chased a man, you know that women do not enjoy the feelings resulting from chasing a man.
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2. Polarity is the name of the game
Modern dating view is wrong when it comes to men.
Men and women have equal rights and obligations in today’s society. There is no question about that.
But when it comes to love, romance and relationships, it works differently.
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What works is polarity and complementarity ( and if you don’t believe me, just look around you the number of high achieving highly successful women who are miserable in love).
Romantically, men and women are at opposite poles.
That means you can’t ACT like a man if you want to Attract a man (and not just any man, but the high quality man of your dreams).
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When you get these 2 points, then you will be able to make a man who has already expressed interest in you chase you
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So what does a feminine woman do ( or not do ) that makes a man want to chase her?
For many years I looked very feminine but I was operating from my masculine energy and I did the exact opposite of this, which only lead to bad experiences with men to be honest.
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1. Don’t make the first move
A move is an interest signal.
A feminine woman does not send around interest signals to men who had not expressed interest in her, she rather responds to their interest signals.
She is able to do that because she has accepted that she won’t choose a man out of the blue but rather she will wait for men to approach her.
Only then she will be able to choose the one she wants to be with.
So if you want to a man to see you as worthy of being chased, you should not make first moves.
That includes approaching men at work or social gatherings, sending the first text after being matched on a dating app, friending or following men on social media.
Of course, you can approach men if you don’t have any romantic intentions and they might turn out to be interested in you.
2. Have an abundance mindset
A feminine woman is secure in her ability to attract as many men as she needs at any stage of her life.
She believes there are enough men out there for her not to be panicking if things don’t work out with one of them so she does not need to retain those who want to leave her life.
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3. Be warm and welcoming
Not sending the first interest signal does not mean hiding your interest or playing games.
A feminine woman will receive interest signals from men with a warm and welcoming energy.
A feminine woman adopts what is called “High intention low attachment”, which basically means that she hopes for the best but plan for the worst.
Practically, this means she shows and gives her best self, as if the man is potentially Mr Right, yet she builds little to no expectations and has very little attachment to the outcome of a relationship if she has not been given solid reasons to do so, even when she really likes the man and when he ticks most of her boxes.
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She truly believes that if things don’t work out with him, there are many others who would line up to be in a relationship with her.
This mindset allows the feminine woman to behave in a fun and playful way that communicates her low attachment, because she has no expectation whatsoever and that shows how much confidence she has in herself.
4. Let the man lead
The feminine woman has given up on trying to control the dynamic of the relationship or even more practical aspects such as planning dates, starting conversations and being too proactive. let him do this work and sit back and relax.
I made that mistake for many years and I reckon it was one of the main reason for my failed relationships.
5. Rotational dating
To support her feminine energy of lightness, playfulness and low attachement, a feminine woman will be seeing many men in parallel.
There is nothing wrong with that as long as it is done in the dating phase.
A feminine woman does not commit to seeing one person unless she is given solid reasons to do so, aka strong interest signals such as a man pursuing her.
And even then, she knows that seeing other men will create a competition dynamic among men without her telling, as her energy speaks for her.
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